5 life skills all students need to be functional adults

life skills for students

I picked up the ability to hem my own jeans in high school, which was useful given that I’m just 5’2″. In actuality, I gained a lot of life skills outside of the fundamental subject areas, abilities that facilitated my transition to being a useful adult. Some of these abilities I picked up from my parents, while others I learned in the now-defunct home economics class. Regardless, I was equipped with fundamental life skills when I started college and my early twenties, which made, well, life simpler.

I’m not sure if today’s pupils have the fundamental life skills they need. But after more than 16 years of teaching, I can speak to the talents I believe our children are lacking, and the following five life skills top the list.

5 life skills all students need to be functional adults

The list below has a possible 100 points. I found it difficult to reduce it to five. I thought of include stress management, coping with failure, job seeking, fundamentals of fitness, and buying/renting a home in addition to the life skills listed below. Oh, and using the proper side of stairs when going up and down. On the last one, I’m joking, but not really.

1. How to handle basic life administration

There is no escaping administrative tasks. Such tasks, outlined below, often begin in high school and increase in scope and urgency in adulthood. (Here is a list of important student admin.) Knowing how to handle life admin is essential to living as a functional adult.

Key administration tasks for students to learn before graduation include the following (although, again, the list could be much longer):

  • Email management: Having a system for checking it, responding timely and appropriately, managing inboxes, etc. Here is a crash course in email management.
  • Making appointments (and knowing that they need to be made): Students should know how often to go to the dentist and have an annual physical, as well as how to make, remember, and show up to these appointments. Students should also know how and how often to schedule basic maintenance work (oil changes, etc.). Calendar skills are key.
  • Organizing papers: Adulthood brings paper piles. A key life skill is paper management. This includes knowing how to reduce papers (online automation, canceling subscriptions, removing names from marketing lists), store papers (filing systems, tax-document storage), and extract information from papers so that the physical paper can be thrown away.
  • Keeping living spaces hygienic: Cleaning and tidying skills include how to clean and disinfect surfaces, dust, vacuum, change air filters, do laundry, wash sheets, clean microwave and appliances, etc. Here’s how to clean school supplies. Also: Today’s PSA bonus is you can’t put metal in the microwave.
  • Automobile maintenance: How to pump gas, how often to change oil, what to do in case of a flat tire, insurance basics, inspection stickers, etc.
  • Food: Food expiration rules, food inventory skills, basic food prep, nutrition, how to grocery shop, and cooking.
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2. Resourcefulness

A critical life skill for students and adults is resourcefulness. Resourcefulness is about knowing how to figure things out. What do you do when you’re confused? How do you figure out hard things? What do you do when you get stuck? What do you do when you don’t know something? I also consider conflict resolution a matter of resourcefulness, although I also list it under communication below. I write about resourcefulness here.

3. Communication

Students roll their eyes when they hear “communication skills” because it’s a vague term that’s thrown around in excess. But for real, knowing how to get your point across is key to doing just about anything connected to school, work and life. (The only three categories there are, really.)

Communication skills include:

4. How to learn things

For obvious reasons, it’s best to acquire this skill while in school. Regardless, if you don’t have basic strategies for knowledge acquisition, you’ll have a hard time securing meaningful employment and developing yourself. Learning things is hard. But there’s a reason we call study skills, study skills.

5. Money management

Nope, I will not preach the importance of balancing a checkbook. I’m not that out of touch. But students need to understand basic financial concepts before graduating so that they can avoid money trouble in adulthood.

Students should learn the following fundamental financial skills, at the very least:

  • Debit cards vs. credit cards
  • how credit works (including credit scores and why it matters)
  • Credit card responsibilities (penalties, interest rates, etc.)
  • Retirement and investment basics (401Ks, etc.)
  • Saving vs checking accounts
  • Tax basics (at a minimum, that yearly taxes is a thing, and who to hire for tax prep)
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These five life skills for students aren’t often taught in school. I wish they were. Or at the very least, I wish schools offered elective courses that students could take if parental instruction in these areas is insufficient. To be fully functioning adults, our students need more than content-area instruction in algebra and physics: they need life skills. 

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